My Heart is Broken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
If you are going through a break up, you might be wondering, “Can I get my ex boyfriend back?” you may be thinking this several times a day. All relationships are different, making every break up different. Yes, there are some things you can do to get him back.
That might go without saying, but some people think nagging is the best way to get what they want. It’s not. If you nag, complain or act unpleasant, you’re just reminding him of things he wants to get away from. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he’ll only want to see you less and less.
The last thing you want to do is drive him farther away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you’re around him, unless the only way to do so is to be absolutely fake.
If you are thinking about pretending to be this way or that way. You have to ask yourself, why you want to be back with him anyway. If you find yourself wondering you might be better off finding someone who doesn’t make you need to pretend.
If you can be pleasant, then the problems you had before the break-up probably do not seem nearly as important now. You may find yourself wondering why you were not more pleasant when you where together.
Something that can not be changed is the past. You may want to remember that later, when you are back together. Point it out to him, let him know that you took him for granted. It is likely he took you for granted too, but don’t expect him to admit it now.
Some other things you might be thinking of trying could either be disastrous or they could work in your favor.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?
This is possible the hardest situation to overcome. It may be difficult to be alone with him if he has someone else, if he is focused on the new relationship. He may see you as part of the past, and not a priority. Be nice right now, it is crucial. He must see how wonderful you are and what he will be missing without you.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?
It may be that you are thinking of deception, forget it now, even if it seems harmless. Even the most innocent lie or small exaggeration could backfire later. What would be the point of getting him back only to lose him later because he finds out about your dishonesty?
My Ex is a Relationship Expert … by GloZell